Monday, August 2, 2010

Still heart broken? -___________-

You're bored. That's normal...You're restless, angry and confused...Believe me we've all been there at one point or another...But don't just sit there thinking about what was or what could have been! Cause guess what? They're out there having the fun of their lives!lol...Here are a few steps you can take:

1.) Dump it...(not them, that already happened lol). Everything that makes you cry or brings back those negative moments trash it all out (Yup! to the dumpster). Cause you can't keeping beating yourself up darling it's all over.

2.) Where are your friends? Go out and have fun! We've got one life to live and a second you spend thinking about what could have been is a second of your life you can't take back. So go out with those amazing friends, laugh smile and live your life to the fullest, you're a star :).

3.) There would be that moment (or moments) where you'll randomly think about everything and that's completely normal. Times like that, think about the reasons you both broke up. If it was for the best then remember you're better off without them, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you'll (or they'll) keep getting hurt.

4.) Don't ask the question WHY?! Darling no. How else are you going to become a stronger person? Someday, you're going to be the one helping someone else get over their relationship: it's a cycle.

5.) Remember that you're special, believe me. And the right person for you is out there. The fact that you haven't met them yet doesn't mean a thing. They'll come at the right time. Time would tell trust me, you're just not in that chapter yet :)

6.)How about you do what makes you happy a little more often? Is it shopping? Reading a novel? Cooking while listening to music? Watching a movie with your red wine on the side? Or is it a talent like singing?(i love singing watch out for my video btw :)) well do that! Make yourself happy love :).

7.) Do NOT kill your self esteem (women do that especially). Don't start saying oh i know it started when Jeremy ( for example lol) looked at me funny i know he felt I was getting ugly...NO! You're beautiful. Why would they choose to be with you in the first place if they didn't think so? #think.

I hope this helps, and feel free to comment if you're looking for advice, it's okay to have those emotions, it's only human nature :)

xoxo

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